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Questions for men who fantasize about wife with another man

Postby LadyLau » Thu Jan 14, 2016 2:03 am

A lot of guys seem to be into watching their wife doing it with another man, and I wonder why. What are the emotions behind it? Do you see yourself as a cuckold, or a swinger? Don't you feel jealous to see your wife enjoying with another one?
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Re: Questions for men who fantasize about wife with another

Postby Funtimes » Fri Jan 15, 2016 11:59 pm

I fantasize about my wife with another man and also in a MFM. It's not about being humiliated. I can't really explain why but I am almost border line obsessed with it. I did experience a MFM with a previous girlfriend, but not being lucky with my wife so far. It was one of the best sexual experiences ever for me. Will keep trying to get my wife agreeing to it.
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Re: Questions for men who fantasize about wife with another

Postby Tristan LeMay » Fri Jan 22, 2016 2:25 am

I think, in many cases, there is also the question of being aroused by another man, period. In the gay world, there are many homosexuals who are not at all aroused by traditional gay porn, for example, and much prefer watching a man having sex with a woman. It is called "Straight Guy for the Gay Eye". This type of porn is generally centered around the male partner and the male partner's genitalia, contrary to traditional straight porn where everything is more centered on showing the female genitalia, the breasts, the hair, the painted nails and lips, etc... I think many men who like to see their wives with another man also secretly would like to be involved in the act and, when they don't want to necessarily be in the mix, they have a very strong voyeuristic fetish and like to watch anyway... their wife with another man, their wife with another woman, any woman with another man, any woman with another woman!

That is my opinion, part of MY explanation.

Cheers,

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Re: Questions for men who fantasize about wife with another

Postby LadyLau » Sat Jan 23, 2016 10:24 am

Sounds reasonable, thanks @Tristan. Others who are eager to chip in are welcome to do so.
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Re: Questions for men who fantasize about wife with another

Postby Tristan LeMay » Sun May 29, 2016 3:15 pm

Thank YOU, LadyLau. We haven't heard from you in a while. I hope you are okay. Also, I would love to hear other people's thoughts on this subject. Guys and girls! Anyone? ;-)

Thanks,

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Re: Questions for men who fantasize about wife with another

Postby CuriouSteve » Wed Jan 30, 2019 10:30 pm

LadyLau hasn’t been here for a while, but I thought I’d try to reactive the topic.

Why fantasize about having my wife with another man? Because she has always possessed a certain “it” that distracts. Not rated as the prettiest girl in the room, she could often cause a young man to wander. I fantasize today to remember or best times of inviting someone to her bed

Why did we do it? For each of our sexual excitement.

What emotions? At different points: anxiety, comparison worry, overwhelming sense of love when reclaiming

See myself as a cuckold or a swinger? No, done the swing thing. Prefer to think of myself as the Stag in a proper HotWife relationship as we, together, consider the Bull.

Do I feel jealous? A little bit can creep in, but really it is as much envy as I know what a wonderful woman he is enjoying.
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Re: Questions for men who fantasize about wife with another

Postby sanctuary » Sun Feb 03, 2019 11:07 pm

Never had a threesome. If I had, I'd want a FFM. I fantasize about my wife and another woman giving me a twin blow job. Or one giving me a BJ and eat out the other. Or whatever. Always a fantasy because I know my wife, although adventurous, has always said that no way would she want to include a third into our relationship. So, I just fantasize and read at Novel Trove and write stories in my head.
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Re: Questions for men who fantasize about wife with another

Postby CuriouSteve » Fri Feb 08, 2019 1:43 am

Well, sanctuary, don’t rule out a change in your wife’s interests as she matures into your relationship and (perhaps) her perspective changes.

We did start with MFF and that was fun, exciting and provided all sorts of thoughts. i.e. who should I cum in? On? How can I be enough of a stud to ensure both women are satisfied? How do I engage with the second woman and work to make sure my wife has no jealousy?

Funny: she had similar worries about me being jealous in MFMs.

Move those stories out of your head, share them with us. Never give up on the idea that one day your wife will look up from a book or movie and ask ...
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